How do you know what you are supposed to do when you are so unhappy with your life? Should you take a deep breath, have patience, and hold on to the way things are because something better is waiting for you around the corner or should you drop everything that is making you unhappy and change your life? 

It will never be as it was.

As always in the case of teen pop sensations, there is the slow, homegrown fight to success… the meteoric rise to fame… and then the fade from attention into near obscurity. 

But don’t worry.
Regardless of their current fame level, you will always have your memories.
You will remember that feeling of hearing they were coming to your town. You will remember the anticipation of your show coming closer and closer. You will remember the joy of driving to the venue. You will remember the hot and cramped auditorium as you made your way to your seat. You will remember the show, in all of its splendor. If you had the chance, you will remember the quick moments where you got to meet them.

You will remember all this… but you’ll move on.

The posters will come down. Your twitter/tumblr/facebook will no longer be dedicated to them. The merchandise will be thrown out or given away.

You’ll move on.
And maybe, you’ll forget.

And however many years from now, you’ll grow up. You’ll get married and have a family. And someday, your daughter will come home from school bursting with joy of a new band that is “the best ever”.

And you’ll remember.

“I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they’re right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.”